Maybe that somebody’s me? Today’s my birthday.

I’ll take a different spin on this one:
I’m told I give people “the benefit of the doubt.” And that’s largely because I’m an optimist with a lot of empathy. Even though I’m proud of that empathy (it informs virtually all of my decisions), I don’t want to be proven a fool.
The secret to avoiding foolishness is to never lose sight of reality. It’s easy to be blindly optimistic, but better to balance optimism with pragmatism.

True. I’m in Virginia visiting my family this weekend.
This is a great message.
A lot of people say, “College was the best four years of my life.” And, yes, it was a great time, but I can’t say that; I haven’t lived all of my years yet (I hope). I don’t know what’s still to come. I’d rather hold onto my good memories in anticipation of the other good things I haven’t experienced yet…
I never want to be in a place where I’m looking back at a time in my life and thinking, ‘that was better than this.’ Instead, I want to look forward to what’s next!
A big part of looking forward to tomorrow is treasuring good memories. By remembering the past, it’s easier to keep marching forward. In other words, treasuring good memories means I don’t have to be upset about the end of the banquet. Or any phase of my life, for that matter.